Six Essential Steps to Making a Healthy Lifestyle Change

on January 20, 2018 by Erin Horst
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Making a healthy lifestyle change can be quite challenging.

In fact, the mere thought of it can be downright terrifying or at least intimidating, even if you have been through this process before. After all, it is a rather big decision. You are considering changing the way in which you live your life….or at least part of it.

Many of us mortal humans have tried and failed on countless occasions to make these seemingly simple adjustments in our daily or weekly routines. The problem is that most of us have no idea what we are getting into when we make these commitments to ourselves.

How difficult could it be to set aside an extra thirty minutes a day to fit in some exercise or drink an additional 20 ounces of water per day? Are you lazy or do you just lack will power?

Chances are the reason you have failed to succeed before has nothing to do with laziness or will power. You cannot just pass this one off as a character flaw. The more likely explanation is that your brain doesn’t work the way you thought it did. This is not a bad thing. It’s just something you need to be aware of.

What many of us fail to recognize is that we are going up against years of behavior and habit. An individual does not become overweight or arthritic or diabetic overnight. Maybe we should not expect to be able to change it all in a day or a week, or even a month. While we have within ourselves the ability to make these changes, whether we take the actions necessary to bring about these changes is a matter of how well we know ourselves.

Here are Six Essential Steps for Making a Healthy Lifestyle Change

1.  Identify Your Priorities and Commitments

Have you ever considered the fact that your behaviors and habits are determined by your priorities? Doesn’t it make sense then that if you change your priorities your behavior will also change? The problem with this scenario is that changing your priorities is much more difficult than changing your behavior. Attempting to do one without the other is rarely successful. If we focus on the behavior without determining the priorities, the behavior will always revert back.

Priorities

The first thing to do is to identify your priorities. Make a written list of what is important to you (e.g., family, work, health, etc). Then, organize these items in order of importance. Typically, the things you spend the most time doing are the things that are most important to you. For instance, do you spend more time each week surfing the internet or watching T.V. than you do exercising or preparing healthy meals for yourself. Most of us at one time or another have probably claimed, “I simply do not have time to exercise” or “I can’t afford to eat that healthy”. These are not matters of time or money. They are matters of priorities. These priorities are not right or wrong, good or bad. They are just your priorities. So don’t fall into the self-judgment trap. That is a sure-fire way to fail at achieving your goal before you even begin to try.

Commitments

At least now, having done this little exercise, you are more aware of your priorities then you were before. If this causes you to want to change your priorities, this is an important step toward making a healthy lifestyle change. Remember, if we can change the priorities, the behavior will follow. But don’t make any changes until you consider the remaining steps and understand what is involved in this process.

People often say, “My problem is not priorities, it is lack of commitment.” So what’s the difference? Without getting into semantics, we come back to the real question: Are you spending the most time on the things that are most important to you? If you doubt that your behavior is not reflecting your priorities, then ask yourself why you think you are more committed to something that is not important to you. Does that make sense?

2. Become Aware of Your Belief Systems

Now that you are more aware of your priorities, consider this: An individual’s priorities are determined by his belief system. That belief system is based on past experiences and conscious choice. Here is an example. We have been told for years that eating eggs and butter will raise our cholesterol and lead to heart disease. We believed this because our doctors and the media told us it was so. From the moment we chose to believe it we changed our behavior and avoided eating eggs and butter. However, we are now being told that dietary cholesterol from eggs and butter has very little, if any, impact on cholesterol levels in the blood. We are also told that the bigger dietary culprits in elevated blood cholesterol levels are trans fats, refined sugars and processed carbohydrates. Furthermore, elevated cholesterol may not even be a culprit in heart disease at all!

The question of which studies or positions you will follow does not necessarily depend on which ones are correct. It depends more on which ones make the most sense to you — which ones you believe. This is often the most difficult concept to grasp because it goes against everything we have been taught with regard to nutrition and health. We have been taught to believe that there is a right way and a wrong way and these rules apply to everyone. I am sure you can think of many instances when you did something despite your knowledge that it was wrong.

Are you living in the past?

Another way to look at this is to realize that the past does not equal the present or the future. If you look at the sources of your beliefs, most derive from an experience or lesson from your past. If this belief or behavior is holding you back, ask yourself why you continue to believe or behave this way. This belief or behavior may have served you well then in that prior situation. But is it serving you well today? And do you think it will serve you well in the future?

The more aware you are of what you really believe in, the more likely you are to make the choices and behave in the manner that suits your best interests. If you want your lifestyle to change then you must be ready to change your self-image.

3. Create an Individualized Strategy

The standardized one-size-fits-all approach is ineffective and may even be hazardous to your health. We are all individuals and, as such, are as different on the inside as we are on the outside. As human beings, we are each biochemically and physiologically unique. This is precisely why no single diet or exercise program works for everyone. If there was such a program, we would all be on it. There wouldn’t be several completely different approaches on the New York Times best-sellers list every week.

Make your Healthy Lifestyle Change Yours

Your goal should be to determine which method or approach will work best for you, not what has worked for someone else. This depends as much on your biochemical and physiological individuality as it does on your ability and willingness to adhere to a new exercise program or diet plan. In my experience, an individual will not make any such lifestyle change unless it feels right or makes sense to the individual. The largest institutions in the world – religions – are based on belief. If you practice any one particular religion you chose that religion because, based on all of the information available to you at the time, it made the most sense to you or it felt right in your heart. James Allen said: “As a man thinketh in his heart, so shall he be.”

Once you acknowledge and appreciate the need for an individualized strategy, how do you actually create one? I recommend you find a qualified professional within the area of expertise appropriate for your goal. If you want to focus on improving your eating habits, find a certified nutritional consultant. If you want to begin or change your exercise program, find a certified fitness trainer. If you need an overall lifestyle change, you may need a lifestyle coach or engage the services of more than one consultant. In any case, you should seek the guidance of a trained professional who will not simply give you a standardized or one-size-fits-all approach. You need someone to take your health history and current lifestyle into consideration before helping you develop a personalized approach.

4. Know Your “Why?”

If you don’t know why you want to change, you are more likely to lose your motivation at some point to stay on course. In fact, not knowing your “why” is the single most common reason for failing to reach one’s goal. Your “why” is the real reason underneath your stated reason for changing. It is your inspiration and your motivation.

Believe it or not, many people actually embark on a lifestyle change, without even making the decision to change in the first place. They even follow many of the steps towards whatever goal they have in mind. Sounds crazy, right? They heard or read about what it takes to achieve a certain goal and they begin blindly following a plan that worked for someone else and sort of go on autopilot. Their actions become very unconscious. They never made the conscious decision to do it for their own reason(s).

Anyone who has ever quit smoking will tell you that they did not quit until they wanted to quit—until they had the desire to quit. Even when they acknowledged that smoking was bad or their loved ones begged them to quit, it was not enough. They had to reach a point where they wanted better health for themselves. They had to desire these things more than the pleasure they got from smoking.

Find the emotion.

Many people, when asked why they want to lose weight or start exercising, will say, “because I want to be healthy.” While that may seem like a good reason, it is typically not the real reason. When I get that kind of response, I will typically ask a follow-up question: “Why do you want to be healthy?” I am looking for a reason that has more emotion behind it—one that comes from the heart. Recently, a client in her 50′s said, “because I want to be able to play with my grandkids for the next 5-10 years.” A man in his 40′s said, “because I don’t want to develop diabetes like my father.” And a woman in her 30′s said, “because I’m tired of feeling crappy all day. I want to feel good every day.” Your “why” must come from your heart, not from your head.

5. Visualize Your Success

Once you have your “why,” you must create an image around it to make it real. The best way to do this is to visualize a day in your life when you have attained your goal. Imagine yourself on a day sometime in the near future when you are healthier and happier because you have changed your lifestyle. Imagine that you have reached your ideal weight. Or you are no longer ashamed of your body. Or you have reached your desired level of strength, energy and endurance. Get a clear picture in your mind of yourself going about your new daily routine. Imagine it as if it was happening right at this moment. Carl Jung called this “active imagination.” Check in with your senses. How does it feel? How does it smell? How does it look and sound? Enjoy the experience of a healthier lifestyle – of success. Was it worth the commitment you made to yourself? Are you happy? That’s what it’s all about, isn’t it?

If you visualize it, it will come.

Numerous studies have shown that visualization is an extremely effective tool. This tool is used by professional athletes, celebrities, millionaires, and successful people in all walks of life. Perhaps it is so effective because it taps into the emotional aspect of your determination. Perhaps visualization is a way of implanting your success within your unconscious mind. Jung also said that our unconscious mind communicates with our conscious mind through pictures or images, not through words. Once you have created that picture in your mind, it is easy to bring it back up whenever you want or need to see it again. If you can see something, then you can believe it and you can achieve it.

So find yourself a quiet place where you go without being distracted and sit for 15-20 minutes and get that picture of success in your mind. Then live every day as if you are still in that movie because if you are sticking to your plan, you are living what you imagined. Live as if you have already succeeded. Going back to that image whenever you feel distracted will recharge your batteries. It will literally change your attitude and the way you live your life.

6. Make the Decision – Make the Commitment

Probably the most overlooked and most difficult step in making a change is making the decision to change. Everyone has within himself the power to change. Though, given the variety of circumstances, it is more difficult for some to change than others, we all have the power. Oftentimes, the difference between someone who succeeds and someone who does not is not circumstantial. The successful person made the decision to succeed. You can have the best of intentions and make all of the plans necessary to make a change. But until you actually decide to take action nothing will ever come of those intentions and plans.

Ask yourself, “Are you are ready?”

Any lifestyle change must be viewed as a commitment. A decision stated in language such as, “I think I can do that”, or “I’ll try to do this” is not really a decision at all. This is you thinking about making a decision. A former assistant of mine, Rosemary, used to say, “Oh, he’s fixin’ to get ready. He ain’t really ready.” Thinking about being ready is just another stall technique. If you have always viewed yourself as an “indecisive” person, remember what we discussed in step number 2. The past does not equal the present or the future. If you want your lifestyle to change, then you must change your self-image. Get serious about your commitment to yourself. You can waiver all you want beforehand. But when you have finally made the decision, you must actually decide that you will attain your goal and nothing will stand in your way. It’s a matter of choice.

The magical thing about a true commitment to a healthy lifestyle change is that once you actually make the decision, attaining your goal suddenly becomes a much more likely result. It’s what we all want, and we can have it if we really, truly want it. It’s a matter of choice.

Time to Make the Healthy Lifestyle Change

Priorities. Commitment. Awareness of your belief system. An individualized strategy. And the desire to make it all happen. These are the keys to making a healthy lifestyle change, or any change for that matter. Just make the decision and watch it happen!

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